Guides: flirting, talking and playing

How to say it, with examples you can use tonight. Written from her side.

• Questions to ask your boyfriend

  Sixty questions to ask your boyfriend: light ones, deep ones, flirty ones and a few for late at night. With a note on how to ask them.

• Flirty texts for him

  Thirty flirty texts for him, from light to bold, and five rules for flirting with a guy over text without overthinking it.

• How to talk dirty

  How to talk dirty when it does not come naturally: start with what is true, say less than you think, and let your voice do the work.

• Roleplay ideas

  Twenty roleplay ideas for couples and for chat, each with two clear adult roles and an easy first line. Plus how to start without laughing.

• Deep questions to ask your boyfriend

  Forty deep questions to ask your boyfriend about his past, his fears, his hopes and the two of you, and how to ask them well.

• Things to talk about with your boyfriend

  Thirty things to talk about with your boyfriend, for the phone, for dinner and for late at night, plus what to do when conversation dries up.

• How to flirt with a guy

  How to flirt with a guy in person: eye contact, teasing, a real compliment and knowing when to leave. Seven moves that work.

• Flirty questions to ask a guy

  Forty-five flirty questions to ask a guy, in person or over text: playful ones to start, bolder ones for later, and a few for when you know.

• How to sext

  How to sext without feeling awkward: agree first, start with a memory or a plan, keep it short, and stay safe. With ideas to begin.