Flirty texts for him, and how to flirt with a guy over text
A flirty text works when it is short, specific and leaves something open. Tell him one thing you noticed, tease him once, and end on a question or on nothing at all. Below are thirty flirty texts for him, sorted by how bold you feel, and the few rules behind them.
How to flirt with a guy over text
Flirting over text is the art of the unfinished sentence. You are not informing him; you are giving him something to think about until he answers.
- Be specific. "That blue shirt was unfair" beats "you looked nice".
- Keep it short. One line reads as confident, a paragraph as nervous.
- Tease gently. Flirting is play, and play needs a little resistance.
- Leave a gap. Do not answer your own question or explain the joke.
- Match his pace loosely. You may be a little slower than him.
Light flirty texts
For the beginning, or for a Tuesday afternoon.
- I just saw something that reminded me of you. I am not saying what.
- You were in my head this morning. Uninvited, but I let you stay.
- How is my favourite distraction?
- I have a question for you, but it is better asked in person.
- You owe me a drink for what you did to my concentration today.
- That thing you said yesterday. Still thinking about it.
- Tell me something good.
- You would have liked what I am wearing.
- I am deciding whether you are trouble.
- Come and save me from this meeting.
Flirty texts with a little more nerve
When he has flirted back and you want to raise it by one.
- I keep thinking about your hands. That is all. Carry on.
- You have exactly one chance to make me blush before lunch.
- I liked how you looked at me last night.
- What would you do if I were there?
- I had a dream. You were very well behaved. It was disappointing.
- Say my name the way you did on the phone.
- You should not be allowed to wear that jacket.
- I am in a good mood and it is your fault.
- Guess what I am not going to tell you.
- Do not make plans for Friday.
Bold texts for the evening
Suggestive, never spelled out. What he imagines is better than anything you type.
- The door is unlocked. That is all the information you need.
- I have decided how tonight ends. You may find out.
- Come over. Bring nothing.
- I want your full attention later. Rest now.
- You are going to hear about this in person.
- I am thinking about you in a way I cannot put in a text.
- Hurry.
- Tonight, you listen and I talk.
- I am not wearing the thing you like. I am wearing the other thing.
- Tell me when you are five minutes away.
When he does not answer at once
Do nothing. A flirty text needs no follow-up, and a second message asking whether the first arrived undoes it. If he is interested, the silence is working for you.
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Questions and answers
- What is a good flirty text to send a guy?
- Something short and specific that leaves a question open, such as "I just saw something that reminded me of you. I am not saying what."
- How do I start flirting over text?
- Refer to something real between you, a moment or a detail, add a light tease, and stop there. Do not explain.
- How often should I text him?
- Less often than you want to. One good message a day does more than ten ordinary ones.