Journal: on AI, romance and what counts

On closeness, fantasy and the questions around an AI lover, answered without selling anything.

• Is flirting with an AI cheating?

  Is flirting or sexting with an AI cheating? It depends on what you two have agreed and whether you would hide it. A calm look at where the line is.

• Dating an AI: what an AI relationship is, and what it is not

  What dating an AI is like: what an AI boyfriend can give you, where it ends, and how to keep an AI relationship good for you.

• Sexless marriage

  A sexless marriage is one with little or no sex. How common it is, the usual reasons, and how couples start talking about it.

• Emotional intimacy

  Emotional intimacy is the feeling of being known and accepted by someone. What it is, the signs it is missing, and seven ways to build it.

• Lonely in marriage

  Feeling lonely in a marriage is common and painful. Why it happens, what it does not mean, and the first steps out of it.

• Romantic fantasies

  Romantic fantasies are imagined love stories we tell ourselves. Why they are normal, the most common ones, and what they can tell you.